Online Personals For Those In the Know! My wife and I met on an online dating site almost three years ago, and were married on March 12, 2009 after a six-month engagement. Unusual findings from a Brazillian research study confirmed what many of us already know: alcohol affects how attractive we view members of the opposite sex, and more alcohol we injest, the more attractive we find other people. But this phenomena seems to effect men more, and longer.